I never wanted to get married When I was a wee lass I never thought I would get married. I never thought about what kind of dress I would get or what colors I would choose for the day. As a matter of fact, it never really crossed my mind. I was too busy chasing frogs or pretending I was a ninja. I thought weddings were for sissies.

I thought that up until about 2 years ago. And now I am engaged and I have no idea where to start. (I'm now a sissy). It seems like a daunting task to plan a wedding. And it's scary. What if I screw it up and the whole day is just awful. I guess I'd just laugh and deal with it.

Plus, I can't dance. I know this is a dumb thing to be worried about, but I can't. That was just a little too confessional...

Back to my point: I think the first step is to pick a day to have it. Or maybe you're supposed to pick the place first. Holy wedding bells, batman! My friend told me about theknot.com. I went there and was just overwhelmed immediately. I think I need to check it out again when I have a longer time to spend a cup of calming tea in hand.